2006-04-13
Hmmmm…a Guest Entry for Kevin! First I was surprised that he would ask little ol’ me, then I thought, “What on Earth will I say”?Kevin has taught me a lot about men. Really. I’m the kind of person who takes stock in stereotypes. I don’t mean to; it just happens. So when Kevin added me early on in my journey into Dland, I was delighted. A man taking interest in what I had to say!!! That was a phenomenal discovery. Then, upon further investigation, I discovered that Kevin, himself, was rather interesting. Okay, so let me get this out of the way-I’m an American chick, and you know how we just love us some British men! (Are you blushing, Kev?)
With each entry, I grew more intrigued by this rather normal fellow, with rather normal feelings who didn’t mind sharing them-yet another phenomenal discovery. I listened to what he had to say about his relationship with Jo and held my breath every single time he mentioned Dave’s possible suspicions. I felt Jo’s pain when Kevin told us what Dave is prone to do when he’s feeling temperamental, and I wished I could contact Jo and lend support through those rough periods. I rejoiced for Kevin every time he was able to steal away with Jo for even the shortest time. We’ve all ridden the roller coaster along with Kevin that has been his relationship with Jo, and I must say, that though he’s had his sadder days, he’s rolling with the punches incredibly well.
Kevin’s family is very important to him, and he plays a healthy role in the upbringing of his children. He fears for them when he knows they’re making poor choices, he beams with pride when they excel in one way or another, and he feels their pain keenly when they experience one of life’s tougher lessons. He loves his wife and supports her, he walks side-by-side with her through the good and bad, and coaches her when he feels she needs it. Likewise, he is open minded enough to accept Lynne’s input when he needs it.
Kevin is a successful man with ambition, a well-educated gentleman with a healthy sense of humor, and a compassionate friend to all of his friends here in Dland and those in the real world.
I’m glad I’ve had this opportunity to extol the virtues of our dear friend, Amb1valent-K, and to say thank you to him for opening my eyes that all men are not uncaring fools. (Phil thanks you, too, Kev)